!!!!!!!!!FIGHT * FIGHT * FIGHT!!!!!!


ImageHello Folks,

I wanna discuss something that is long over due. We spend so much time feeling sorry for ourselves.  I mean really accepting the victim’s role. Allowing whatever wrong done to us to really pull us down.  I know about this much to well.  I have recently experienced something that has rocked my faith in GOD and also my trust in mankind.  I have been crying, screaming, and feeling sorry for myself. 


I have decided to get up an live everyday..I mean live..I do not need permission from anyone.  I really don’t care what anyone else says or how they see me.. Why don’t I? Well, none of these judgmental people have a heaven or hell to place my soul in for eternity.  That being said..




I know they were talking about you at church..pretending to care but just trying to get more information. They just wanted to have something to gossip about. I know they were spreading your misfortune at work-acting like they care that your spouse was unfaithful..I know they talk about the way you dress or the way you wear your hair. I know they lied to get you to give money and they have never paid you back.  Believe me as I type this, I hear it all..So your past is spotty, you have been in prison before..no one will hire you..Your father is not, or was not there for you..O yes, they were talking about the money that you don’t have..laughing about you behind your back..

No one will hire you..start your own business..your father isn’t there..be a great mom or dad when given the chance..they are talking about you..their life is a mess-that’s why they have time to keep up with your life..the people at the church seem fake..they are..the church is made for misfits..they just don’t know -that you know -that they are misfits..they tricked you into giving them money..God said the we would be the lender and not the borrower..REJOICE!!!

You feel like the victim (hmmm)-that’s what he(Satan) wants you feel like ..the victim. He wants you to feel powerless over your life. Over the choices you make or have made.

He is A LIAR!!

You have complete control. Those who are talking about you..look at them NOW and laugh at them. hmm-I don’t hear you laughing..still not laughing..Do I need to start telling jokes.. Did you not read the book..Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth!!!

 Take the energy that they are using to try to stop you and turn it around and use it to propel yourself into-what-


Will it be easy? Of course not..Anything worth having is worth fighting for!! 

My word to you


in the words of the Street Fighters…

Coyfee OUT!!







Hello Folks,

I was recently challenged to forgive someone who hurt me deeply.  I honestly did not want to forgive this person.  I honestly wanted this person to be tied to a stake and burned slowly. However, the Spirit of God, which stills hovers within me..say NO..FORGIVE-VENGEANCE is MINE!!

I told the person that I will forgive them because I want to remain in right fellowship with GOD. If it were left up to me I would still be trying to tie them up and set the stake on fire.. Tell the truth do you any of you feel this way? Have any of you ever wanted to just smash the hand of the person that stole from you or cut out the tongue of someone that lied on you?? Tell the truth.. I know some of you have felt this way..

So I must be honest and say that as I move forward the devil continually tries to lasso me with pain and bitterness…pulling me backward to that place deep within the abyss.  I will pray and fast if I must to break free because this evil one is not worthy of all the energy needed to remain bitter.

There are such better things to do with all the newly found energy I have from working out..






MARK 3.24

24 For if civil war breaks out in a kingdom, nothing can make that kingdom last; 25 and if a family splits into parties, that family cannot continue26 So if Satan has risen in arms and has made war upon himself, stand he cannot, but meets his end. 27 Nay, no one can go into a strong man’s house and carry off his property, unless he first binds the strong man, and then he will plunder his house.

28 In solemn truth I tell you that all their sins may be pardoned to the sons of men, and all their blasphemies, however they may have blasphemed; 29 but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit, he remains for ever unabsolved: he is guilty of a sin of the Ages.” 30 This was because they said, “He is possessed by a foul spirit.”

Hey guys, 

We are working on building a family that represents God‘s grace and love. What we have found is that the enemy(spirit of division) is working constantly to keep our family divided and arguing at each other.

I began praying since the wisdom of God began to tug on me about a house divided. I understand that there are demons being released to challenge our dedication to God’s plan for our lives. My husband to be(lol) is anointing to preach the Gospel. Shhhsh! Don’t tell anyone he is still being groomed and often is unsure what God is doing. It is an exacting thing to watch. He is a rough around the edges but God has a tool that sharpens iron. ME!! I know guys..often time God will give me a message to share with him. 

We share the word of God with each other.. It’s not always an easy task but we are learning to share and respect the Spirit of God. I have learned to pray about whatever God is saying and allow God to deal with him. This keeps the arguments to a medium.

We have decided to focus on God and pray often for revelation, grace, and mercy when dealing with each other directly. We are also praying for an couple that we can be accountable with.  We are praying for a couple that has all the good stuff, second or more marriage, step children, and even adult children. Pray with us.. We declare that we will be ministers used by God for His sakes!!

So I am sharing this to show how the spirit of divination, works in our family. Have you noticed this spirit working in your family? If so, how have you been addressing this spirit? Here is another scripture reference that will show how division also affects the church. 

Jude 1:19

It is these who are [agitators] setting up distinctions and causing divisions—merely sensual [creatures, carnal, worldly-minded people], devoid of the [Holy] Spirit and destitute of any higher spiritual life.

Jude 1:18-20 

Tune in later for the steps of overcoming ‘Division’

Coyfee out!!







The Topic of the Day: Marriage Material

I asked folks what makes a partner marriage material and read below to see what they said. I honestly believe that the things that single out a person from among the others would be things like:

Character-being a person of integrity; someone you can trust not only with your heart but your future

Loyalty-someone who will be faithful to you in good and bad times

Family minded-someone who is willing to place the relationship in the highest of priorities

Financial soundness-Can or will this person support the family above themselves?


These are a few of the things that come to mind when I think of someone being a marriage partner. These are also things that I did not think about when I was a young girl and I decided to marry. I must admit no one had ever even given me a list or suggested that I make one. 

I think it is important to keep in mind that not only will this person affect your heart but your finances, and also your health if they are not faithful.

Here’s what some of our viewers had to say:

    Bethany Morris I think there ability to love and take care of their family. Their heart has to be good.
    Calvin Bell Now that I will be tuned in for!!!….
    Sanders McElroy if she can put up with me and still love me with all my faults.. thats good marriage material
    Sanders McElroy and she has to believe in God
    So tune in for updates on what the viewers consider marriage material..Choose carefully..this is your future you are planning..
    Coyfee out til next time..
    Love Ya





So that you won’t be concerned, my life isn’t falling apart. I want you to imagine if you can that it is. That you tried your last plan to resolve the conflict. What next, well really what should have been first=>PRAYER. 

When it has seemed like I really could not go on, when it seemed like the enemy has put his foot on my head and I haven’t the strength to rise up. I begin to make supplication unto the Lord our GOD.


I have a couple of scripture references for you.. 

Here they are: 

Philippians 4:5-7 (Amplified Bible)

Let all men know and perceive and recognize your unselfishness (your considerateness, your forbearing spirit). The Lord is near [He is [a]coming soon].

Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition ([b]definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God.

And God’s peace [shall be yours, that [c]tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall[d]garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

I want you to take a few moments and meditate on this scripture. It is telling you that when you petition the Lord to allow His peace to flow your heart and soul. It is reaffirming the security we have in the Lord. It is assuring you that the Lord Jesus will release the angelic host to guard over you in the time of trouble. Fret Not ..the scripture says.. 

When we petition the Lord it is like sitting down to dinner with Lord Jesus at the table with us. He is there to provide our Daily bread. 

Here is the example that Jesus notated for us. This is our guide regarding supplication.

Luke 11 (King James Version)

11 And it came to pass, that, as he was praying in a certain place, when he ceased, one of his disciples said unto him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples.

And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth.

Give us day by day our daily bread.

And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.




There is our bit of humor for the day.. I really want you to smile; even laugh..

Now let’s get down to business..

Intercession is extremely rewarding and the world would be a much better place if everyone would pray God’s word for at least one  person outside of their family. Think of the impact. No judging or criticizing; just prayer. Heart felt earnest prayer.. The impact of the word of God when released by someone is powerful. Here is scripture to help you see the importance of scripture when release through the mouth of one that believes..

Isaiah 55:11 (Amplified Bible)

Amplified Bible (AMP)

11 So shall My word be that goes forth out of My mouth: it shall not return to Me void [without producing any effect, useless], but it shall accomplish that which I please and purpose, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.

Mark 11:23

Amplified Bible (AMP)

2Truly I tell you, whoever says to this mountain, be lifted up and thrown into the sea! and does not doubt at all in his heart but believes that what he says will take place, it will be done for him.

I hope these two scriptures will help you prayer with assurance that God will answer your prayers and that you will have great success as you intercede for the hurting and the lost.

I want to leave one last tid-bit with you..Please always confess(agree with God that you were wrong and or you wronged someone else) your sins and pray for forgiveness(ask God for forgiveness and to be cleansed of all of your sins) before you begin your intercession.


Coyfee is out til next time..

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Nite folks….zzzzzzzz 🙂





Do you remember the kids in school that had to attend the other class. Some of the kids were mean and picked on them. They called them slow, retarded( academically delayed), dumb even. Those kids weren’t dumb or even slow; they just learned differently. It took specialized training to help the kids move forward and grasp the actual material.

Well I am sure you have read the title, and maybe have an idea where I am going with this. I would like for you to examine yourselves. How well do handle things that make you angry or things that make you uncomfortable. I was having a conversation with my eldest daughter, we  were talking about how some of her friends do not act their age. I smiled and told her that my friends don’t act their age either.  Do you believe that you are acting your age when having to address issues that require maturity to address?

Image This is a little something to make you smile even though our topic is quite serious..we all need a little laughter:)

I want to also share some scripture with you. These scriptures reflect the seriousness of growing up SPIRITUALLY. Always keep in mind that these scriptures are written to warn, encourage, advise, and hopefully motivate you.

Romans 8:7

[That is] because the mind of the flesh [with its carnal thoughts and purposes] is hostile to God, for it does not submit itself to God’s Law; indeed it cannot …So then those who are living the life of the flesh [catering to the appetites and impulses of their carnal nature] cannot please or satisfy God, or be acceptable to Him.



So if you have found yourself to be stagnant  in the area of Spiritual Maturity. Here are some pointers to help:

  • Always have an accountability person-someone who will be honest to you
  • Pray often and meditate on scriptures concerning the areas where improvement is needed
  • Be honest with yourself and others. He who hides his sin does not prosper or progress
  • Forgive yourself and ask forgiveness daily

The Lord God loves you!  He wants you to accept Him as your Lord and Savior..If you would like to recieve Him NOW!

Recite the Prayer below…

 Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner! I have sinned against you. I confess that without you I can do nothing. Please come into my heart and reign, rule and abide in me NOW! I ask you to SAVE me now. I acknowledge that I am now SAVED-SET APART FROM THIS WORLD!!

Email me if you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior… coyfeelatte@gmail.com. I would like to be one of the first to congratulate you!





Just had a conversation with a friend and they were trying to convince me that they love me. So they began citing what the scriptures has to say about love. The thing is that this person rarely displays the fruit that hang from the tree called love. 

I have always desired to be LOVED. To have a man just shower me poems, tokens, flowers, just make me feel like a million bucks. However, this is rare even now..So when we examine the fruit of love; we see that it is completely different than what most of us imagine. It has nothing do with gifts or money, but sincerity, long suffering and kindness. Just to name a few….

Let’s take a look at how the scriptures describe love.. I Corinthian 13

13 If I [can] speak in the tongues of men and [even] of angels, but have not love (that reasoning, intentional, spiritual devotion such [a]as is inspired by God’s love for and in us), I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

And if I have prophetic powers ([b]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), and understand all the secret truths and mysteries and possess all knowledge, and if I have [sufficient] faith so that I can remove mountains, but have not love (God’s love in me) I am nothing (a useless nobody).

Even if I dole out all that I have [to the poor in providing] food, and if I surrender my body to be burned or [c]in order that I may glory, but have not love (God’s love in me), I gain nothing.

Love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.

It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].

It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness, but rejoices when right and truth prevail.

Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].

Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end]. As for prophecy ([d]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), it will be fulfilled and pass away; as for tongues, they will be destroyed and cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away [it will lose its value and be superseded by truth].

Now this is the love that we should have for one another but the LOVE of GOD is far more grand than anything we can express. Just imagine if you will giving up your child for someone who could careless about him or you. That is what GOD did for us all. Even if you do not believe in Him ..it makes Him no less powerful..He loves you even though you haven’t or may never accept Him or His Son..His love for you is AMAZING!!!


Now if you are feeling alone and unloved this season, just remember that GOD loves YOU!! and so do I>>>

So if now that you know how much the Lord God loves you; you want to accept him as your Lord and Savior..Recite the Prayer below…

 Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner! I have sinned against you. I confess that without you I can do nothing. Please come into my heart and reign, rule and abide in me NOW! I ask you to SAVE me now. I acknowledge that I am now SAVED-SET APART FROM THIS WORLD!!

Email me if you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior. coyfeelatte@gmail.com. I would like to be one of the first to congratulate you!


Coyfee is out til next time...