LETTING GO !!!?!!?!!!?!!!


!!!!LETTING GO!!!!!

Hello Guys,

I want to talk about a real place in time.. what is it? Moving on.. Letting go.. Arriving.  We will start with moving on.  I was reminded that no matter what a person does to you ..you can not move on until a decision is made to do so.

I have made this decision, I am moving on. I will not focus on the past but embrace my future.  Though sometimes my future looks bleak..I am remind that God’s word says that he has a plan for success not failure planned for me and for you..

I will allow the memories, which are not all bad, will become just a memory.  My future can changed be by me based on my choices and what I believe. I have decided to change the focus and let go!!!

Ways to move on

  1. Exhale
  2. Breathe deep
  3. Forgive him/her/them
  4. Accept the fact that God will take Vengeance on whomever hurt you
  5. Walk it Out!!

So let’s start with Letting GO

Coyfee out..

Thanks to all who read my blog daily…Thank you






Hello Folks,

I was recently challenged to forgive someone who hurt me deeply.  I honestly did not want to forgive this person.  I honestly wanted this person to be tied to a stake and burned slowly. However, the Spirit of God, which stills hovers within me..say NO..FORGIVE-VENGEANCE is MINE!!

I told the person that I will forgive them because I want to remain in right fellowship with GOD. If it were left up to me I would still be trying to tie them up and set the stake on fire.. Tell the truth do you any of you feel this way? Have any of you ever wanted to just smash the hand of the person that stole from you or cut out the tongue of someone that lied on you?? Tell the truth.. I know some of you have felt this way..

So I must be honest and say that as I move forward the devil continually tries to lasso me with pain and bitterness…pulling me backward to that place deep within the abyss.  I will pray and fast if I must to break free because this evil one is not worthy of all the energy needed to remain bitter.

There are such better things to do with all the newly found energy I have from working out..




Do you remember the kids in school that had to attend the other class. Some of the kids were mean and picked on them. They called them slow, retarded( academically delayed), dumb even. Those kids weren’t dumb or even slow; they just learned differently. It took specialized training to help the kids move forward and grasp the actual material.

Well I am sure you have read the title, and maybe have an idea where I am going with this. I would like for you to examine yourselves. How well do handle things that make you angry or things that make you uncomfortable. I was having a conversation with my eldest daughter, we  were talking about how some of her friends do not act their age. I smiled and told her that my friends don’t act their age either.  Do you believe that you are acting your age when having to address issues that require maturity to address?

Image This is a little something to make you smile even though our topic is quite serious..we all need a little laughter:)

I want to also share some scripture with you. These scriptures reflect the seriousness of growing up SPIRITUALLY. Always keep in mind that these scriptures are written to warn, encourage, advise, and hopefully motivate you.

Romans 8:7

[That is] because the mind of the flesh [with its carnal thoughts and purposes] is hostile to God, for it does not submit itself to God’s Law; indeed it cannot …So then those who are living the life of the flesh [catering to the appetites and impulses of their carnal nature] cannot please or satisfy God, or be acceptable to Him.



So if you have found yourself to be stagnant  in the area of Spiritual Maturity. Here are some pointers to help:

  • Always have an accountability person-someone who will be honest to you
  • Pray often and meditate on scriptures concerning the areas where improvement is needed
  • Be honest with yourself and others. He who hides his sin does not prosper or progress
  • Forgive yourself and ask forgiveness daily

The Lord God loves you!  He wants you to accept Him as your Lord and Savior..If you would like to recieve Him NOW!

Recite the Prayer below…

 Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner! I have sinned against you. I confess that without you I can do nothing. Please come into my heart and reign, rule and abide in me NOW! I ask you to SAVE me now. I acknowledge that I am now SAVED-SET APART FROM THIS WORLD!!

Email me if you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior… coyfeelatte@gmail.com. I would like to be one of the first to congratulate you!



Forgiveness: A Way Of Escape From Resentment


Shalom to you, which means peace to you. I promised we would examine the ways to break free from the Spirit of Resentment. What is it? FORGIVENESS!!! Read below what the Mayo Clinic had to say about forgiveness.


When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace Forgiveness and move forward.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

Nearly everyone has been hurt by the actions or words of another. Perhaps your mother criticized your parenting skills, your colleague sabotaged a project or your partner had an affair. These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger, bitterness or even vengeance — but if you don’t practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you can also embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Consider how forgiveness can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.

What is forgiveness?

Generally, forgiveness is a decision to let go of Resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you might always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you deny the other person’s responsibility for hurting you, and that doesn’t decrease or prove the wrong that was done. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.

I woke up one day and realized that the person that I was in a relationship with was really bad for me. He was mean and bitter and had a trail of vile accusations leading from him in any direction. I at first thought, I had done something to make him act this way.. that however was not the case. He was refusing to forgive. To accept the  responsibility for his own actions. He blamed everyone for him being where and who he was..everyone but HIMSELF..The cure he needed was right in front of him. FORGIVENESS!

Tonight’s home work is to make a list of everyone that has ever done anything to you. Then tomorrow we will discuss how to effectively forgive them.