!!!!!!!!!FIGHT * FIGHT * FIGHT!!!!!!


ImageHello Folks,

I wanna discuss something that is long over due. We spend so much time feeling sorry for ourselves.  I mean really accepting the victim’s role. Allowing whatever wrong done to us to really pull us down.  I know about this much to well.  I have recently experienced something that has rocked my faith in GOD and also my trust in mankind.  I have been crying, screaming, and feeling sorry for myself. 


I have decided to get up an live everyday..I mean live..I do not need permission from anyone.  I really don’t care what anyone else says or how they see me.. Why don’t I? Well, none of these judgmental people have a heaven or hell to place my soul in for eternity.  That being said..




I know they were talking about you at church..pretending to care but just trying to get more information. They just wanted to have something to gossip about. I know they were spreading your misfortune at work-acting like they care that your spouse was unfaithful..I know they talk about the way you dress or the way you wear your hair. I know they lied to get you to give money and they have never paid you back.  Believe me as I type this, I hear it all..So your past is spotty, you have been in prison before..no one will hire you..Your father is not, or was not there for you..O yes, they were talking about the money that you don’t have..laughing about you behind your back..

No one will hire you..start your own business..your father isn’t there..be a great mom or dad when given the chance..they are talking about you..their life is a mess-that’s why they have time to keep up with your life..the people at the church seem fake..they are..the church is made for misfits..they just don’t know -that you know -that they are misfits..they tricked you into giving them money..God said the we would be the lender and not the borrower..REJOICE!!!

You feel like the victim (hmmm)-that’s what he(Satan) wants you feel like ..the victim. He wants you to feel powerless over your life. Over the choices you make or have made.

He is A LIAR!!

You have complete control. Those who are talking about you..look at them NOW and laugh at them. hmm-I don’t hear you laughing..still not laughing..Do I need to start telling jokes.. Did you not read the book..Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth!!!

 Take the energy that they are using to try to stop you and turn it around and use it to propel yourself into-what-


Will it be easy? Of course not..Anything worth having is worth fighting for!! 

My word to you


in the words of the Street Fighters…

Coyfee OUT!!








Then war broke out in heaven; Michael and his angels went forth to battle with the dragon, and the dragon and his angels fought.

But they were defeated, and there was no room found for them in heaven any longer.

And the huge dragon was cast down and out—that age-old serpent, who is called the Devil and Satan, he who is the seducer (deceiver) of all humanity the world over; he was forced out and down to the earth, and his angels were flung out along with him.

10 Then I heard a strong (loud) voice in heaven, saying, Now it has come—the salvation and the power and the kingdom (the dominion, the reign) of our God, and the power (the sovereignty, the authority) of His Christ (the Messiah); for the accuser of our brethren, he who keeps bringing before our God charges against them day and night, has been cast out!

Have you ever wondered when the Spirit of Division began? It all began in Heaven with the battle that Satan and Michael began to fight. The word says that Michael threw Satan and Satan’s angels out of Heaven.  Satan was desiring the praise that he was not worthy of! The praise belonged to GOD! He wanted to be the one that was worshiped   He convinced a third of the angels to follow him and to Abandon GOD!! See he convinced them by causing them to question what they heard. How they interpreted what was said to them by God!.  

Friends this happens every day. Every day the enemy confuses people and creates separation.  What happens next?  Division! When someone hurts you or makes you believe that you have been lied too..you immediately want to leave that person’s presence. IF the pain is great enough un forgiveness comes and brings bitterness with her.  Read below at what Adam says about his wife..Lord the woman you gave me…a few verses previously he was decree this is “flesh of flesh ..bones of my bones”.. See what happened when Satan entered the scene as the spirit of Division..

Genesis 3

Amplified Bible (AMP)

3 Now the serpent was more subtle and crafty than any living creature of the field which the Lord God had made. And he [Satan] said to the woman, Can it really be that God has said, You shall not eat from every tree of the garden?

And the woman said to the serpent, We may eat the fruit from the trees of the garden,

Except the fruit from the tree which is in the middle of the garden. God has said, You shall not eat of it, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.

But the serpent said to the woman, You shall not surely die,

For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing the difference between good and evil and blessing and calamity.

And when the woman saw that the tree was good (suitable, pleasant) for food and that it was delightful to look at, and a tree to be desired in order to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate; and she gave some also to her husband, and he ate.

Then the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves apronlike girdles.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.

But the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, Where are you?

10 He said, I heard the sound of You [walking] in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.

11 And He said, Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?

12 And the man said, The woman whom You gave to be with me—she gave me [fruit] from the tree, and I ate.

13 And the Lord God said to the woman, What is this you have done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled (cheated, outwitted, and deceived) me, and I ate.

14 And the Lord God said to the serpent, Because you have done this, you are cursed above all [domestic] animals and above every [wild] living thing of the field; upon your belly you shall go, and you shall eat dust [and what it contains] all the days of your life.

15 And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her [a]Offspring; He will bruise andtread your head underfoot, and you will lie in wait and bruise His heel.

16 To the woman He said, I will greatly multiply your grief andyour suffering in pregnancy and the pangs of childbearing; with spasms of distress you will bring forth children. Yet your desire and craving will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.

17 And to Adam He said, Because you have listened and given heed to the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded you, saying, You shall not eat of it, the ground is under a curse because of you; in sorrow and toil shall you eat [of the fruits] of it all the days of your life.

The spirit of Division (Separation) begins to show his intentions back in the beginning read the accounts from Genesis.  I want you ponder these accounts and see that if the very angels were deceived then what of us? We must be careful of how and what we say.  Many are easily offended and allow that offense to push them away from the church (Body of Christ).

If you have wounded, or offended anyone ..please apologize..Do not allow the enemy to use you to offend any one.. IF someone has hurt you, go to them and let them know. They maybe unaware of the pain they have caused.  We must remember that the spirit of Unity is what reveals that we are of Christ..not separation…

Coyfee is out!! Love YA




Well guys it’s been a while since we discussed the SPIRIT OF DIVISION.  I hope everyone remembers that this is the Spirit that works behind the scene to cause separation.  This spirit is dreadful and it is one the most mis-understood spirits ever.  This spirit is responsible for causing divorces, sibling rivalry, church splits, break ups, and business failures.

One of ways the spirit deceives is with the lack of communication.  I discover this ploy within my own family. I would say one thing and Mr. Big would hear something completely different. Also vice verse, he would say something and I would hear something completely different.  We have committed to use a concept called mirroring.  When he tells me something I will repeat it to him to make sure I understand what he actually meant.  I will let you know how this works for us.

 Back to the lesson…

Now that we have reviewed a bit, tell me have you done your homework? Did you review the list of symptoms? I have found that the spirit of division seems to always work.  The spirit likes to make itself at home with spirits of religion, pride, idolatry, selfishness, unforgiveness and some others that we will discuss later in the blog series.

I want to make you aware that the way to overcome is three fold.  Body (actions), Mind(thoughts) and Soul (spiritual).  


The body focuses on actions such as if someone has physically hurt you.  Maybe touched you in a certain way and this creates a split or divide with others like.  If a woman was abused,  she may not be able to be joined in a healthy relationship with another person.  Now, she is left alone or thinks she prefers to be left alone.  We are weaker when we are alone BECAUSE  the BODY OF CHRIST is a group of believers not just one.


It has been said that the MIND is a terrible thing to waste..not sure who said it but I remember it from a commercial.  I want to focus on the way the enemy fills our minds with negative thoughts about everyone and everything.  When the spirit of division is allowed to run free; it cause great havoc.  The person is always thinking that someone is against them.  Everything is against them.  What ever wrong is done is thought to be done on purpose.  This will soon push the person to a place solitude though the person desperately needs to be in the fellowship of other believers.


This one is bit tricky because for the novice, they will find demons in everyone.  This causes them to be afraid or uneasy around everyone.  Also, they will make others uneasy as they can not see where they are wrong.  They are unable to discern their own behavior and how that behavior is the absolute opposite of GOD.  They do not read the word but focus solely on what they are hearing.  Now the word is clear that we are to test the spirit to see if it is of GOD.  They however will not make any attempt to test the spirit because they have allowed pride to set in and  they of course can not be corrected.


Friends, my sole solution is PRAYER…I know someone is thinking that all I talk about is PRAYER..well, you are right.  PRAYER, is our first line of defensive and study of the word will strength your discernment.  

The prayer:

Lord, thank you that I am being filled with Your Spirit.  I invite the Holy Spirit into me to wash and cleanse me MIND, BODY and SOUL.  Thank you Lord, that I have the mind of CHRIST.  Thank you that I am a part of the Body of CHRIST.  Thank you Lord, you have restored my SOUL.


COYFEE is out… 





Hello folks,

For those that remember this tv show-Hulk; I felt just like him.  How out of control he would get when he got angry. He, David Bannerman, would turn into this huge green monster. He would destroy everything in its place..mostly the bad guy. Nevertheless, he would try with all his might to control the anger which would escalate to rage. However, he never could.  

Now I wasn’t that bad but boy I felt like I was close. So here’s the skinny on what happened earlier today.

Oh my goodness, I am so very angry right now. I went to visit a frequent chat room today. Nothing to deep but there was this lady in the room that decided to pick on me. She was talking about my pictures and posting them the room. I became so angry that I could hardly contain it. I need a scripture to calm me down and what I was finally able to receive was “be angry and sin not..”

I wanted to use profanity.. just destroy her with my words but the Lord reminded me of who I am. Now don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with the pictures but she desperate to discredit me. I am a full curvy woman ..no shame to that. I love good food and never over do it. I however love to play with the camera so I take a lot of pictures. I have had this profile for a very long time and so I have a lot of pictures on the site..Some maybe a bit spicy but no nude or lewd pictures.

I posted about it the experience and left the site. I was so angry that I could not confront her that I wanted to scream..Witch!!! why are bothering me…I will be honest the other word flashed before my eyes but I held on to my composer.


How is it that I allowed someone who is not even important to bring me to this type of anger? I was asking myself. Even now and about 30 minutes have passed my blood is still boiling. Yes, I know I belong to GOD. I know He is love. I know that I am to be light to them that dwell in darkness. I know that I am to turn the other cheek when someone strikes me. I know this girl is probably lost but Lord I am just now starting to calm down and think righteously.

I am His servant even on a Sunday afternoon. I am the light shining in the darkness. The light on a hill. The one praying for the salvation of the unsaved. I am his daughter and I desire to do His will. I need to watch as well as pray. Cause I wasn’t thinking about anything negative at all.  I visit the rooms to on different sites to invite people to view the blog and also to gather research about upcoming topics.

I can really say I understand and do have the greatest of compassion for the young ones who have been bullied online. Who have been embarrassed and have been hurt by those who have had their hearts broken. 

Nonetheless, I reported the girl but that will probably not do anything to cause her to not treat anyone this way again.

To the word…

Ephesians 4:26

King James Version (KJV)

26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:

If anger has been a problem let’s us pray together:

Lord, forgive me for the anger that rose up in my heart. Help me to always offer good in place of evil. Give me the strength that comes from the Holy Spirit to over the evil that comes from Satan.

Thank you for washing me from the stains of this world and transforming me into one that has power to over evil.


Coyfee out..until next time…





Hello Readers,

How do we begin to examine the attribute-the father of lies? We have all lied..period. When do we know that it is the devil speaking through a person. I would venture to say that it is when the spirit of TRUTH is challenged.  I know that even as a SAVED_SET APART CHRISTIAN, I have emotional outburst. I have found myself getting really angry just feeling almost out of control. I really believe that it is at that time that Satan is whispering lies in my ear. He is telling me that I have to defend myself in the natural by yelling or screaming-even worst. He is telling me to fight back with words that his demons will work to bring to reality. 

It is a challenge to catch the enemy when he is whispering his lies in our ears..sometimes he says that there is no reason to live.. that it will never get any better…so the easiest thing is to KILL YOURSELF.. That is when many have committed suicide. Also when the devil whispers KILL THEM they do not deserve to live..they are going to leave you so if you kill them you two will be together forever..Or some other lie….

Below are some scriptures where Jesus is talking to some of the scribes..Read below…

John 8:40-44

Amplified Bible (AMP)

40 But now [instead] you are wanting and seeking to kill Me, a Man Who has told you the truth which I have heard from God. This is not the way Abraham acted.

41 You are doing the works of your [own] father. They said to Him, We are not illegitimate children and born out of fornication; we have one Father, even God.

42 Jesus said to them, If God were your Father, you would love Me and respect Me and welcome Me gladly, for I proceeded (came forth) from God [out of His very presence]. I did not even come on My own authority or of My own accord (as self-appointed); but He sent Me.

43 Why do you misunderstand what I say? It is because you are unable to hear what I am saying. [You cannot bear to listen to My message; your ears are shut to My teaching.]

44 You are of your father, the devil, and it is your will to practice the lusts and gratify the desires [which are characteristic] of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a falsehood, he speaks what is natural to him, for he is a liar [himself] and the father of lies and of all that is false.


If you have noticed a difficulty in yourself concerning any of the things mentioned above. If a voice is telling you to end it all…It is a lie..God’s love can heal any broken part of your life but you must allow His anointing to heal you. Do not take your life..GOD desires you to LIVE AND NOT DIE>>Read below the words of life..

Psalm 118:17

Amplified Bible (AMP)

17 I shall not die but live, and shall declare the works and recount the illustrious acts of the Lord.

Now if you have not accepted Jesus Christ into your life. And you have a desire to do so. Pray this prayer:

 Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner! I have sinned against you. I confess that without you I can do nothing. Please come into my heart and reign, rule and abide in me NOW! I ask you to SAVE me now. I acknowledge that I am now SAVED-SET APART FROM THIS WORLD!!



The Tempter




Hello Readers,

We will discuss other attributes of Satan. One  attribute that comes to mind that has not discussed is Satan the Tempter. He is known to have tempted many but have you ever read what is written in Matthew 4.  Satan being bold  and using his skills to deceive ..he tempted JESUS!! 

Matthew 4

Amplified Bible (AMP)

4 Then Jesus was led (guided) by the [Holy] Spirit into the wilderness (desert) to be tempted (tested and tried) by the devil.

2 And He went without food for forty days and forty nights, and later He was hungry.

3 And the tempter came and said to Him, If You are God’s Son, command these stones to be made [[a]loaves of] bread.

4 But He replied, It has been written, Man shall not live and be upheld and sustained by bread alone, but by every word that comes forth from the mouth of God.

5 Then the devil took Him into the holy city and placed Him on [b]a turret (pinnacle, [c]gable) of the temple [d]sanctuary.

6 And he said to Him, If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down; for it is written, He will give His angels charge over you, and they will bear you up on their hands, lest you strike your foot against a stone.

7 Jesus said to him, [e]On the other hand, it is written also, You shall not tempt, [f]test thoroughly, or [g]try exceedingly the Lord your God.

8 Again, the devil took Him up on a very high mountain and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and the glory (the splendor, magnificence, preeminence, and excellence) of them.

9 And he said to Him, These things, all taken together, I will give You, if You will prostrate Yourself before me and do homage and worship me.

10 Then Jesus said to him, Begone, Satan! For it has been written, You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him alone shall you serve.

11 Then the devil departed from Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him.

Now pause for a moment, think about this? Satan thought to himself that I will attempt to deceive the Son of God..JESUS..

Now what do you think is doing to us..to you???

Ever wonder why your husband lies to you..

Your wife cheats??

 Your children stealing from you??

 Your boss just doesn’t like you much??

Does any of that sound familiar? Well guess what they are all being deceived. Because of his deception they are prime targets to be tempted to do what is wrong..

If you have been deceived and hence, have been tempted to do something that is wrong. Something that has hurt someone else..please go to them and ask for forgiveness.. Begin a new you where you do all within you to avoid the characteristics of Satan. Live your life in a manner that others may speak well of you..

Now if you have not accepted Jesus Christ into your life. And you have a desire to do so. Pray this prayer:

 Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner! I have sinned against you. I confess that without you I can do nothing. Please come into my heart and reign, rule and abide in me NOW! I ask you to SAVE me now. I acknowledge that I am now SAVED-SET APART FROM THIS WORLD!!


If you just gave your life to Jesus Christ.email me coyfeelatte@gmail.com. I would like to be the first to congratulate you!!





I thought we would examine the personality which is often affected by the characteristic of the Accuser of the Brethren.  Many do not realize that they are displaying the personality or attribute of Satan when they continue to blame others for everything. They often take a victim’s role and begin to blame someone; honestly anyone for things that they themselves have or maybe doing.

They are extremely persistent in telling or exposing others. Now please understand that it is fine to expose the TRUTH but with the correct motives. If you decide to expose someone’s wrong doing to help others, the person who is creating the fault or even yourself.  Your motives are correct, but if you are exposing, accusing this person to create trouble for them than well you are in error.

Read below the portion of scripture used to show how Satan accuses….

Job 1:5 – 12

It was so, when the days of their feasting had run their course, that Job sent and sanctified them, and rose up early in the morning, and offered burnt offerings according to the number of them all. For Job said, “It may be that my sons have sinned, and renounced God in their hearts.” Job did so continually. Now it happened on the day when God’s sons came to present themselves before Yahweh, that Satan also came among them. Yahweh said to Satan, “Where have you come from?” Then Satan answered Yahweh, and said, “From going back and forth in the earth, and from walking up and down in it.” Yahweh said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant, Job? For there is no one like him in the earth, a blameless and an upright man, one who fears God, and turns away from evil.” Then Satan answered Yahweh, and said, “Does Job fear God for nothing? Haven’t you made a hedge around him, and around his house, and around all that he has, on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his substance is increased in the land. But stretch out your hand now, and touch all that he has, and he will renounce you to your face.” Yahweh said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your power. Only on himself don’t stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of Yahweh.

Also read below how another spiritual leader expresses this persona..

Exposing the Accuser of the BrethrenFrancis Frangipane,  Senior Minister 
River of Life Ministries located in Cedar Rapids, Iowa.

The faultfinder spirit’s assignment is to assault relationships on all levels. It attacks families, churches and interchurch associations, seeking to bring irreparable schisms into our unity. Masquerading as discernment, this spirit will slip into our opinions of other people, leaving us critical and judgmental. Consequently, we all need to evaluate our attitude toward others. If our thoughts are other than faith working through love, we need to be aware that we may be under spiritual attack.

The faultfinder demon will incite individuals to spend days and even weeks unearthing old faults or sins in their minister or church. The people who are held captive by this deceitful spirit become “crusaders,” irreconcilable enemies of their former assemblies. In most cases, the things they deem wrong or lacking are the very areas in which the Lord seeks to position them for intercession. What might otherwise be an opportunity for spiritual growth and meeting a need becomes an occasion of stumbling and withdrawal. In truth, their criticisms are a smoke screen for a prayerless heart and an unwillingness to serve.

That someone should discover the imperfections of their pastor or church is by no means a sign of spirituality. Indeed, we could find fault with the church before we were Christians. What we do with what we see, however, is the measure of Christlike maturity.

Remember, when Jesus saw the condition of mankind, He “emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant . . . He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross” (Phil 2:7-8). He died to take away sins; He did not just judge them.

No One Is Exempt

It is of some consolation that Christ Himself could not satisfy the “standards” of this spirit when it spoke through the Pharisees. No matter what Jesus did, the Pharisees found fault with Him.

If you personally have not consulted with and listened to the individual of whom you are critical, how can you be sure that you are not fulfilling the role of the accuser of the brethren? Even the “Law does not judge a man, unless it first hears from him” (John 7:51).

The enemy’s purpose in this assault is to discredit the minister so it can discredit his message. I have personally listened to scores of pastors from many denominational backgrounds, and I have found that the timing of this spirit’s attack upon their congregations was almost always just prior to, or immediately after, a significant breakthrough. The unchallenged assault of this demon always stopped the forward progress of their church.

When this spirit infiltrates an individual’s mind, its accusations come with such venom and intimidation that even those who should know better are bewildered and then seduced by its influence. Nearly all involved take their eyes off Jesus and focus upon “issues,” ignoring during the contention that Jesus is actually praying for His body to become one. Beguiled by this demon, accusations and counter accusations rifle through the soul of the congregation, stimulating suspicion and fear among the people. Devastation wracks the targeted church, while discouragement blankets and seeks to destroy the pastor and his family, or other servants of God in the church.

Nearly every minister reading this has faced the assault of the faultfinder spirit at one time or another. Each has known the depression of trying to track down this accusing spirit as it whispers its gossip through the local church: trusted friends seem distant, established relationships shaken, and the vision of the church is quagmired in strife and inaction. http://www.reconciliation.com/n_frangipane.htmImage

Examine yourselves, see if you have any characteristics of the enemy. If so make it your first priority to change..

Now if you have not accepted Christ as your Lord and Savior, but would like to. Please recite this prayer

” Lord Jesus, I am a sinner. I am asking you to come into my life and make me whole. Forgive me for all of my sins. Allow me to become a son or daughter of GOD thru the Spirit of Adoption. I thank you Lord Jesus for saving my soul….”

If you accepted Christ Jesus email me personally at Coyfeelatte@gmail.com..

I would like to be the first to congratulate you..

Coyfee out til next time>>>>